WHAT’S LUCK GOT TO DO WITH IT?
FIVE TRAITS OF LUCKY PEOPLE
March is the
month of four-leaf clovers, little green leprechauns, green beer, and the pot
of gold at the end of the rainbow. We are all Irish on St. Patrick’s Day, and
we all hope to be showered with that famous luck of the Irish.
The
word luck, beaten and bastardized, gets tossed around like a day-old doughnut
whenever Indie authors discuss success (or lack thereof) of their book sales.
The
first time I ran a KDP free book promotion, and placed my suspense eBook, She’s Not There, free on Amazon.com, I
only had 8,202 downloads at the end of my two days. This result was
disappointing compared to those of an friend, who had 26,000 for her book using
the same promotion.
When I asked her about it, she said that her success was a matter of
luck, due the fact that a popular eBook site noticed her promotion and
highlighted it for their readers. I know firsthand that her success is not all
due to luck. She is a devoted marketer and spends every available moment
working to maintain her books’ sales momentum. Me, I’m addicted to things like
playing bridge, reading, and watching soap operas; my marketing ethic is not
nearly as fierce!
Here
is a universal truth:
Luck is more likely to happen to
those who go after it.
No one wants to hear that. We would all prefer to cling to magical
thinking: I’ll get rich when I win the lottery, the perfect man will come
knocking at my door, a stroke of fate will send my book sales through the roof.
It
ain’t gonna happen!
Secrets of Lucky People
1. They believe they will be
successful. Research shows that if you believer
you’ll succeed, your odds of hitting a lucky streak go up. There is no magic
involved—expectancy is a real driver of results. Expecting something as opposed
to wanting or hoping for it, will affect your decision–making and you’ll put in
more of an effort than you normally would have. Find ways to stay positive and
expect success—it works!
2.
They Notice What Others Miss.
a. Lucky people are more open to random opportunities. They notice chance situations and act on
them. They are flexible in their thinking, and it’s that relaxed, open attitude
that allows them to see what others don’t.
b.
Keep your eyes open for
opportunities—they’re out there!
3.
They Say “Yes”
a. Lucky people do not remain passive. Instead, they seize opportunities
as they come without endless second-guessing.
b.
When chance encounters occur,
don’t over-think them, act on them!
4. They Switch Things Up
a.
Lucky people increase their chances
of getting opportunities by meeting new people and trying new things. Luck
won’t come looking for you or call you on your Smartphone.
b.
The more you put yourself out
there, and try new things, the more likely it is you will find luck.
5. They Practice Bouncing Back
a.
Lucky people don’t let one
failure sidetrack their road to success. When you let a bad break get you down,
you close the door on new situations that could lead to a lucky break. Closely
linked to the first trait, expecting the best, bouncing back means you will
have a greater chance of success with each failure, because you’ll be trying
more often.
b.
Regard every bad break as an
opportunity to find the right course for you!
Dear Readers,
So
many of us, myself included, wait for that magical break that will mean success
for our writing. But magical thinking delays success. Practice these habits of
lucky people and reap the rewards.
Happy St. Patrick’s Day,
Marla
Note: I seldom repeat a blog, but this one on luck
has been so popular that I repeat it every March when everyone's thinking bout the luck of the Irish.